Interview with Valentine Bonnaire

Spotlight on Valentine Bonnaire

Some of the material in this post was also published to the BOM Blog where I host a weekly Spotlight Series on Indie Authors.

Valentine Bonnaire is a wonderfully talented Poet & Storyteller with a uniquely beautiful style. I first read her work in the anthology Book Lovers, her short-story ‘A Little Irish Honey’ was a lovely addition to a superb collection…

A few months after my review for Book Lovers was published, Ms. Bonnaire contacted me on GoodReads asking if I had any interest in reading her book, Gardenias. My answer was an emphatic ‘yes’ and I’m pleased to say it was one of the better decisions I’ve made. 😉

If Book Lovers provided a glimpse of the talent Ms. Bonnaire had to offer, then Gardenias was nothing short of an opus of Erotic delights.

We’ve since become friends, and I must say, she is a fabulous human being with a vibrant soul, and I wish her all the best…

As part of my weekly series on the BOM Blog, I was able to chat with Valentine about her book Gardenias, which I encourage you to read. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

 

Shurrn’s Interview with Valentine Bonnaire

If you were to describe your book in only one word, what would it be? 
LOVE

What would you say inspired you to write it?
I wanted to compile a tiny first collection of my web published short stories.  Because one of my stories was actually stolen without my permission for an anthology.

What was the source of inspiration for your characters?
You will see varied “people” as both in my tales.  Each tale is different, hopefully the embodiment of a woman’s life, and of men and their lives and loves.

Have you ever been hit by the infamous “writer’s block”? What did you do to escape it?
Faced the page.  Daily.  One has to.  A screenwriter once taught me, “Ass in the chair.”  Really.  Plant yourself there during what you will establish as your writing time.  Go until you come to a natural stop, and always leave a bit “unfinished” so you will have a place to start the following day.

Your all time favorite book?
Such a hard question.  Oh, it really is.  “Palm Latitudes” by Kate Braverman comes to mind today.

What made you pick that one above all others?
I love the way that Kate Braverman has been brave enough to tackle what being a woman is.  She does this in all of her books.  I want to call it a feminism that is coming out of some kind of deep sisterhood in a literary vein.  It’s so hard to explain.  It’s just that as a woman when you enter her text, you know that she has been there before you, and she never lies.  Her texts can be brutal in their honesty.  And you know she’s not lying about any of it.

What’s the longest time you’ve spent working on a project?
I’ve been writing a memoir now since about 2009, off and on.  It’s so hard because I can only get a chapter out at a time and it’s in Second Person, which is very tricky as a POV.  I want to be as brave as Braverman has been with this one.  She taught Janet Fitch, so in some ways this is my “White Oleander” territory.  And that is scary.  Really scary, to plumb the depths from your honest true core.

Would you say becoming an author has changed you? In what way?
It’s made me LOVE my job.  I am beginning to write cure in ways I could never do one on one as a therapist.  I hope to write for film, and see movies made that will move the mass heart, or the heart mass of humanity.

Was there ever a time, during your work for the book, when you felt like giving up? What made you change your mind?
Actually, Shurrn — and this is true — until I “saw” my book reflected back at me, by you and some others in a review — I wasn’t sure.  It doesn’t matter what comments came so much at Cleansheets, or on the writer’s list at ERWA I’m a member of.  It was the wider world, and what you and other readers said to me, and showed me.  I can’t explain what that kind of validation is.  It’s so humbling that I wept, which is going to sound corny but I did!

What does your day-to-day life consist of? What else do you do, aside writing?
I spend far too much time in this last decade worrying about the world, so I’m writing up a storm most days on every subject you can imagine.  I’m glad you brought this up, because, this is something I am going to have to learn to manage far better than I have.  I love to read, I love long hot baths and walks by the beach, I love to bake things and cook.  I love to paint.  I think there is a discipline one must learn as a writer, to cope with what we are seeing on the news, and pull back from that.  Lately I’ve been buying pillows like mad.  I’m sort of surrounding myself with this softness I need more and more of.  Also lipstick and perfume.  I’ll make myself go shopping to tear myself away from the news at times.

How do you deal with bad reviews or acid criticism? What would you advise other authors to that effect?
I’ve been very lucky so far, that’s all I can say.  Be with other writers and like-minded people as much as you can at Conferences, and join a web group you check in with as well.  This will keep you grounded.  As you help other writers in terms of honest critique, that will come back to you ten-fold as honesty.  Also, I look at Ray Bradbury in youtube.  “Writing Persistently.”  I was lucky to hear him lecture at my conference before he passed, so he is a constant as a touchstone.  This one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlYAhSffEDM One more thing.  Know that not everyone is going to understand you on the page.  I have had crits by people who cannot understand my metaphors.  So,  I have to let that go — because others come back with a comment that is luminous.  It’s a delicate tightrope we all walk as writers.

Is this title part of a series? Without giving us spoilers, of course, what can we expect from the next e-books/books in the series?
“Gardenias” is a book I would like to expand, but at a proper press.  I have many more short stories and I’m hoping to get published by one of the best presses on the planet.  Now that I’ve been in two books that are in bookstores, ahem…  I want to see Gardenias there, on the shelf.

What do you have stored for us in the future? What are you working on/planning on next, aside this title/series?
Writing Erotica is very fun, for adults.  I try and write character interiority into all of my pieces, and sometimes I have tried to write into areas of the very deep feminine, mostly so that men can read that.  A new project for me has been to write heterosexuality in a series of books that address coming of age, as age appropriate developmentally, for kids who are cisgendered.  I’m basing this on the way we grew up in the 1970’s, so it’s all pretty innocent, as things were then.  This is an age when children have seen so much, and so much in the web, novels like my Heart of Clouds take them backwards to a time when life was much, much, simpler.  I guess it’s my homage to “Little House on the Prairie” in some ways.  We recently had a tragedy at my alma mater UCSB, a boy who had grown up unable to get a date, or even talk to a girl.  These books will address this.  I had looked at videos recently on kids here, here, & here and this series I will be writing will address what I have seen.  Heart of Clouds teaches the power and innocence of a first crush at age 14.  It was based on a boy I knew at that age, when holding hands was a pretty big deal.

What made you decide to become an Indie Author?
Subject matter!  Also Anais Nin was.  I wanted to see if I could reach a wider audience when I first published Gardenias.  The real way, though — is traditional publishing I feel.  I am a purist!

What would you say was the toughest part?
Not knowing how to market, and wrong cover design.  Not being with a proper press and not having a literary agent.  Those are important.  Because as a writer you want to be translated into other languages.

Did you hire professionals for editing, cover design, formatting?
No.  I did it all myself.  (Capricorn, ooof!)

How long did the production part take, from the moment you began working on the manuscript to when you hit ‘Publish’?
Gardenias was first published through Kindle using Pressbooks.  It’s almost no different than a WordPress blog so it was very easy.  Also I was just compiling already published stories I had written.

Where is your work being distributed, Amazon, B&N, Smashwords, AllRomanceEbooks/Omnilit, some other distributor? How did you decide which one(s) to go with?
Heart of Clouds and a revised version of Gardenias are published with Draft2Digital.  So easy you would not believe it.  I mean that.  But, it’s not traditional publishing.   The whole thing is so messy.  I am in Kobo and B&N and iTunes and Amazon — but not in the “real” way.

If you could turn back in time and do things differently, would you? What would you change
Nothing!  I got my start at Cleansheets and then Erotica Readers & Writers.  It was baby steps all the way, with the most wonderful editors.  I was published!  I really was.  The list I’m on at ERWA gave me huge confidence as a writer.  It has taken a decade to “own” myself as a writer.  I’m very grateful to those along this path who have taught me more than I ever imagined.

Fun Facts

If you could wish for any one thing, and it would immediately come true, what would you wish for?
Instant Literary Agent and Instant Book, published by the finest Press possible.

If you were stranded on an isolated island, what’s the one book you’d absolutely wish to have with you?
Octavio Paz — his collected poems.  Like transcendental honey for the soul!

Name your favorite fruit.
Peaches.

Coffee or tea?
Coffee with lots of cream and sugar.

Favorite season?
Summer.

How about favorite time of the day?
Morning.

Were you a boyscout/girlscout?
I was a Girl Scout!

Favorite food for breakfast?
A French breakfast of little pastries, tartines and coffee.

What is the latest book you’ve bought and read?
At my writer’s Conference I just got four.  First one I cracked open is by a wonderful writer, Catherine Ann Jones – The Way of Story: The Craft & Soul of Writing.  This one, and it was such synchronicity to find her this year.  We share the same graduate school in common.

Do you collect things, like stamps, or key chains, or shoes?
Oh, haha!  I love: every pot and pan imaginable, sheets, comforters, seeds, lipsticks and perfumes.  Also beach towels.  And hats.  Oh.  Shoes.

Favorite color, you know you want to tell us!
I like the whole rainbow.

Drama or comedy?
Drama.  But loves comedy.

Do you have a favorite quote or personal motto?
“How many more times will you remember a certain afternoon of your childhood, some afternoon that’s so deeply a part of your being that you can’t even conceive of your life without it? Perhaps four or five times more. Perhaps not even that. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps twenty. And yet it all seems limitless.”
― Paul Bowles, The Sheltering Sky

Cats or dogs?
Both — all  my life.  Has two dogs now, both rescues.

Dinner by candlelight or a night out clubbing?
As many candles as possible, reclining on big puffy white couches that resemble clouds while nibbling tapas and really great cocktails.

Favorite Swear Word?
F*ck.  (This was era I grew up I daresay.  We all said it.) xxoo!

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More About Valentine Bonnaire

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Valentine Bonnaire has been fluttering around the garden writing Literary Erotica and poetry for over a decade.  She has been widely published for her heterosexual short stories at Cleansheets and Erotica Readers and Writers Association (ERWA) — where she is on the writers list and can be found in the Galleries and Treasure Chest.  Published most recently this year in “Book Loversfor her “A Little Irish Honey” she couldn’t be happier about the reviews her work has been getting.

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Greatest Poet Alive – Revenge of the Orgasm

Revenge of the Orgasm by Greatest Poet Alive

Source: Review by Request
Copy Provided by the Author
My Rating: 4 of 5 Stars

As you are driving, your body involuntarily jumps. Sweat begins on your forehead and appears on your body, even though it is the middle of Winter. Inside of your left thigh, there is a tapping that is not harmful but noticeable. And you begin to wonder if sanity has departed or control of your motor skills is no longer your own. Then, the epiphany becomes clear. This is Revenge of the Orgasm.

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A sensual and scintillating collection of Erotic Poetry from the male perspective…

I only think of you in between the blinks of my eyes.
But I have told you a falsehood.
Every other heartbeat, you inhabit my mindset as well. I
am obsessed with you.

It takes a massive amount of ego to decide to write under the pen name “Greatest Poet Alive” and as a reader its easy to see such a boast and declare that the outcome will fall under one of two categories:

1. The author will live up to their chosen name…
(or)
2. This book is going to fail spectacularly…

Poetry is a very subjective genre – I personally found this collection of poems to incredibly entertaining. The jury is still out on whether this is the “Greatest” but I’m pleased to say this collection is certainly worth the read.

There’s something particularly intriguing about the obviously male perspective giving voice to these erotic interludes… The collection of poems is a celebration of sex and the female form.

There is a beautiful rhythm to each and every piece, and the flow will keep you satisfied!

The diverse subject matter includes scenes of voyeurism, exhibitionism, light BDSM, and a few scenes of infidelity… In addition to heaping amounts of lust…

Excerpt:

Chocolate, Powdered Sugar and Strawberries

The strawberries were large and cool.
Powdered sugar was abundantly spread over the strawberries Warm was the chocolate because that is the scent it gave off. She licked, licked, licked, and licked the sugar from the strawberry’s skin 

Her teeth took a bite of the cool strawberry, and the juice tasted her lips, which her tongue wiped away. 
Then with her spoon, she scooped some of the warm chocolate onto her plate, dipping her strawberry into it fluently. 
What a combination…

The chocolate meshed with the strawberry, upon her lips coated with powdered sugar And with aggressive intent, I watched 
After she finished her third strawberry, her gaze captured mine. She asked what I was thinking. 
Again, I chuckled.

In another universe or another date, I would have told her the truth. The length and width of me was supposed to be the sugar she licked off 
My undercarriage and neck would be the strawberries she bit into And opposed to her dipping chocolate, I would dip, delve into her

Discretion overcame bravado I said none of that 
Besides, it was just our first date.

Q&A with G.P.A.

If you were to describe your book in only one word, what would it be?
Epic

What would you say inspired you to write it?
My encounters with several beautiful women inspired Revenge of the Orgasm. Also, I believe that ROTO gave me separated the distance between myself and whoever might be second to me. Plus, most books of sensual Poetry are fantastical. These are true events written as epic poems.

Have you ever been hit by the infamous “writer’s block”? What did you do to escape it?
Writer’s block is a myth. Never experienced it.

Your all time favorite book?
The Catcher in the Rye

What made you pick that one above all others? 
The story of this young man discovering himself was appealing to me when I read it. And it impacted me going forward.

What’s the longest time you’ve spent working on a project?
Five months was spent writing  my third book, The Mind of a Poetic Unsub. I did this because I wanted to throw a lot of poetic muscle at my readers.

Would you say becoming an author has changed you? In what way?
I have a great purpose in life that I didn’t have before. And for me to have people that wish to read my work is overwhelming.

What does your day-to-day life consist of? What else do you do, aside writing?
I play video games, walk with Scooter the Beagle, hang with my family, work out, and watch movies.

How do you deal with bad reviews or acid criticism? What would you advise other authors to that effect?
You have to shrug it off and take it evenly.  Otherwise, you will go crazy.

Is this title part of a series? Without giving us spoilers, of course, what can we expect from the next e-books/books in the series?
Revenge of the Orgasm is the third book in The Lust Series.

What do you have stored for us in the future? What are you working on/planning on next, aside this title/series?
The next book is “Summer with Bobo”, the sequel to the best selling “Hi, My Name is Bobo”.

What made you decide to become an Indie Author?
Poetry isn’t one of those genres that is highly sought after, so I really had no choice. But I dig it.

What would you say was the toughest part?
The toughest part of being an indie author is your budget is what it is, and that’s what you have to work with. From there, you do your promoting, traveling, hiring, etc.

Where is your work being distributed, Amazon, B&N, Smashwords, AllRomanceEbooks/ Omnilit, some other distributor? How did you decide which one(s) to go with?
Amazon. It was so much simpler than what I had been doing, trying to work with different people.

If you could turn back in time and do things differently, would you? What would you change? 
I would have married the right woman.  That makes all the difference in the world.

Fun Facts

If you could wish for any one thing, and it would immediately come true, what would you wish for? 
A million dollars cash, my family healthy and near me, my health, and Her.

If you were stranded on an isolated island, what’s the one book you’d absolutely wish to have with you?
The Norton Anthology of literature

Name your favorite fruit. 
Apple

Coffee or tea?
Coffee all day

Favorite season? 
Fall

How about favorite time of the day?
Night

Were you a boyscout/girlscout? 
Cub Scout

Favorite food for breakfast? 
A reuben, fries, and a heineken

What is the latest book you’ve bought and read?
Rahiem Brooks “Murder in Germantown”

Do you collect things, like stamps, or key chains, or shoes? 
I steal pens, the good ones.

Favorite color, you know you want to tell us! 
Blue, preferably navy

Drama or comedy?
Comedy

Do you have a favorite quote or personal motto?
“WOO!!”

Cats or dogs? 
Scooter the Beagle! Dogs !!

Dinner by candlelight or a night out clubbing?
I’m a romantic, so dinner by candlelight

Favorite Swear Word? 
Shit!!!!

Valentine Bonnaire – Gardenias

Gardenias ~ EroticaGardenias by Valentine Bonnaire

Source: Review By Request
Provided by Author
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

For your Valentine!

Gardenias is a little book of erotica meant for lovers.

The stories have been compared to the classic literary tales of Anais Nin, except these are all heterosexual. Be swept away with poetry, if you dare. Take the book into bed with your lover, and whisper.

People are whispering about the book. It’s been called seductive, beautiful, sensual, serene and a masterpiece in the first reviews from Amazon.

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Several stories converge in Gardenias, weaving a tapestry of time and memory with sex & sexuality as the focal point.

There seems to be a touch of everything within these pages…
the forbidden stranger,
bondage and control,
misery in marriage,
coming of age,
fantasy lovers,
deflowering,
lost love,

There are a few topics which might be taboo for some readers:
Several stories dealing with adultery,
age differences,
anal sex,
dub-con…

It has an ethereal quality to it…
The book does not follow a linear narrative throughout the chapters. The transition between stories evokes a dream state – the tales dissolving into one-another with each new chapter…
Sometimes feeling like memoirs and memories,
Sometimes darker and more forbidden,
Sometimes reading like poetry,
Sometimes blissfully playful,
Sometimes poignant…

Gardenias is not your average book, it does not fit any one specific genre. I would qualify it as a mix of poetry/erotica/chick-lit/domestic meditation…
This is the author’s soul folded into a book.
Elegant yet erotic,
Intricate yet attainable,
and admittedly (though unsurprising based on the title) a little flowery at times…

A portfolio review:
(because sometimes words fail me)


Some women inherit jazz. It runs in them like honey, slow and nebulous. A little like love. You whisper it.


The velvet blindfold felt strange to him. It made him even more invisible inside its darkness. I’m a mass of secrets under the velvet, he thought. No one will ever know me. No one ever has…



The power of lingerie. It’s so easy really. Most men are simple. They like to look at it and imagine it is all for them, it’s all about Vogue, really. It’s all about glamour and the trill of putting all these things on, only to have them ripped off hours later…



No one tells you when you don the veil there might be other, darker thoughts later […] They always tend to appear when there is discontent, or possibly disquiet.



“Breathe with me, just breathe,” he murmured.



Baxter was an artisan, sexually. Yes he was.
He was what you call a poetic love maker.



…his particular mythology was to steal a wife. Because it had just happened to him, and so if he did it too, he would be a winner somehow. I guess it’s still pretty tribal like that really. We aren’t that far removed from caves are we?



He knew how to undress my soul. Have you ever met someone who could see inside you? He saw everything, and so did I.



You can be madonna or you can be whore […] You have to decide, which will it be? If you are one thing, you can never be revered as wife and mother. If you are the other thing, you can assume the pose of a goddess in black lace. You can be Aphrodite in all her glory. Otherwise you have to wear pink flannel and be sure you know the recipe for Toll House cookies. It is never fair. Yet as women we know these things deeply in our flesh and bones […]
She chose to be a courtesan. She chose to dispense with notions about her role.



He used to write her about what it was like to feel the body of the woman melt into his. And she was melting for the first time in her life. He was the other, wilder half of her soul.



We take love for granted. Why? We take love for granted. There will never be another letter. There will never be another conversation. There will never be another one like him. We take love for granted.

***The author graciously gifted me with a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review***

Book Lovers: Sexy Stories from Under the Covers

Book Lovers: Sexy Stories from Under the Covers

Edited by Shawna Kenney
Featuring Multiple Authors
Source: Review by Request
ARC Provided by the Publisher
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Forget poorly written prose and clichéd love scenes: Book Lovers answers the call for sexy literature with substance. This collection of toe-curling tales written by and for word-worshippers offers well-crafted fiction and creative nonfiction that connects literature to libido. From a Vonnegut-inspired tryst to an imaginary ménage à trois with Henry Miller and Anaïs Nin, the book encompasses a veritable buffet of literary fantasies.

Whether they’re conjuring Junot Díaz between the sheets or dreaming of a modern-day enactment of Wuthering Heights—this time refusing Edgar in favor of lusty, bodice-ripping nights with Heathcliff—the stories in Book Lovers are designed for readers’ brains and bodies.

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